Boyfriend: I'm having a moment of feminist realization. Me: Oh? Boyfriend: I'm watching The Avengers, and there's this scene where Black Widow is shooting at aliens while Hawkeye helps people off a bus. And it's just such a subtle thing, but it is a reversal of your stereotypical gender roles. It made me happy. Me: I'm so proud of you right now. Boyfriend: This is all your fault.